Still on the trail of elusive Helen Mitchell born Strathdon 1846 and her son Charles Mitchell born Strathdon 1868.
Thanks to Annette (nelmit) who has suggested this might be them: -
"There is this family in 1881 at Dennistoun, Glasgow -
Gilbert McIntosh 33 born Dornoch
Ellen McIntosh 30 born Shathdon (Ancestry transcription

Charles McIntosh 12 born Shathdon"
Ellen and Gilbert married in Glasgow in 1872 and her age is out by 6 years and the mother's maiden name is wrong... still wondering...?
I find them at the Bridge Inn, Newcastle-upon-Tyne in 1891, now also with a 5 year old daughter Gilbertina
and again in 1901 in Heaton, Northumberland with 15 year old Gilbertina and no sign of Charles.
Ellen dies in 1905.
Any suggestions gratefully received!!!
Tish