I think your tale demonstrates what I love about this hobby (obsession ?) of ours. You have the great brain-stretching part where you have to be so analytical and lateral-thinking to track someone down, and you get that genealogist's high when you find them r prove your great theory. But then having tracked down the elusive man or woman, who previously meant nothing to you as a person, you start wanting to know more and more about them .
Question must be ‘What did this woman have that attracted the men to her ‘?
I don't know, but perhaps Helen will reel you in too after all these years ...
Sally
(I've got some film on my mind now with Christopher Reeves in it )