Anyway with a name like Brown wasn't holiding out much hope but I have been using a certain connection site & had not been getting any so called "Hot Matches" turns out I had disabled the option-I am not very computer literate.
Anyway ended up with about five pages of them & decided to trawl through them all.I was becoming brain dead when I got goose bumps over one & sent a message with others.This afternoon got a reply & we share the same GGGrandparents.
My Mum will be so excited & it is nice to know what happened to this Brown.She was the eldest daughter & I couldn't find her but she married in 1856 so made it to confirm her parentage!