I need more than paracetemol, Helen Mcquade is driving me up the wall

The children on this Poor Law record you have found are not on the IGI and I can't figure out where the FOX comes in. This Helen's age suggests she was born 1832 and the other Helen's death cert suggests a birthdate of 1835 but I know ages are not always correct.
I cannot find anything else on the IGI or the census for 1882, 1901.
So, are there two Helen McQuade Kelly and if so who's death cert do I have

I feel like I am never going to find Patricks birth when I can't even figure out his mother's name.
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Regards, Cathie in lala land.