Marriage in Scotland and Proclamation of Banns.....

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marilyn morning
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Post by marilyn morning » Sat Sep 02, 2006 11:35 pm

Oh now everyone has me crying :cry:

So let me try to cheer everyone up, for just a moment

My dog Maxine, is a mini Dachshund and she comes to the office with me, everyday and sits at my desk. I sit on the floor!

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Post by nancy » Sat Sep 02, 2006 11:56 pm

Oh Marilyn,she is so cute.Yes you managed to make me laugh in Oneills and took my mind off things for a wee while.
cheers nancy

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Post by emanday » Sun Sep 03, 2006 12:13 am

Hi David,

I've been reading to see how things went with Gilbert and just want to say how sorry I am that the time had come to, as you said "let go".

My little Tosh is pushing 16 now, apparently healthy, but I am only too well aware that time is moving on for her. She is, I think, the fifth or sixth generation of my cats. I was sitting on the floor with my hand on her mum's tummy while she and her siblings were being born, (her mum was a woose and required permanent human attention during kittling).

I have, quite literally, known Tosh all her life. I'm not looking forward to that day that I know must come. I hope she will just slip away quietly but, if it seems that she might suffer, I know that giving her peace will be the last good thing I will be able to do for her, as you did for Gilbert.

Bless you.
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Post by sheilajim » Sun Sep 03, 2006 1:19 am

Hi David

I am so sorry that your old friend passed away. Cats and dogs can be the best friends a person could have.

I am sure that he had a good life living with you.

Regards

Sheila
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Post by marilyn morning » Sun Sep 03, 2006 5:09 am

For anyone wishing to send a sympathy card to David in his time of mourning, please visit

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Post by Cathy » Sun Sep 03, 2006 11:43 am

Hi David,
sorry for your loss :cry:
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Post by DavidWW » Sun Sep 03, 2006 1:26 pm

emanday wrote:Hi David.

.....snipped...............

I have, quite literally, known Tosh all her life. I'm not looking forward to that day that I know must come. I hope she will just slip away quietly but, if it seems that she might suffer, I know that giving her peace will be the last good thing I will be able to do for her, as you did for Gilbert.

Bless you.
Hi Mary

Our sincere thanks to you and everyone else for their condolences.

As far as Tosh is concerned keep a very close eye on her weight. Anything more than a 10% loss for a cat of that age is regarded by vets as indicative of a problem. It might just be bad teeth, or something else, but, if a treatable condition is involved, the earlier the better that it's detected.

Regular blood tests are also advised for old cats to check on thyroid and kidney function, as well as any tendency to diabetes, and a potassium deficiency. Does Tosh eat any significant amount of fresh liver?, - in which case, there's a significant chance of too much vitamin E as a result leading to a problem...........

Does Tosh like tuna? (very probably a daft question!), - in which case she should be restricted to one tuna feed every other week, due to the risk of mercury poisoning, believe it or not. Mercury (Hg), still widespread as a pollutant, tends to concentrate in fish such as tuna, and human beings are now recommended to have quite a low intake, - so given the much lower body weight of cats and that the effect can be linked to dosage/kg of body weight, this also has to be considered (biochemical engineer speaking here!)

As I wrote previously, cats are expert at "concealing" a problem until it has become serious. Don't be concerned about going to the vet based on behavioural differences, - the vet will very much respect the fact that you are the expert on your cat's behaviour, and it's quite amazing from chatting to vets how many behavioural differences have a link to a physical condition, however insignificant such behavioural changes might seem, - the important aspect here is that there have been such changes.

When Gilbert originally adopted us as suitable set of humans, to be followed quite soon by Sullivan, then a bit later by D'Oyly and Angus, and, lastly, Oliver a couple of years ago, I had no real understanding of the responsibility that we were taking on !!

Sullivan was an unusual cat in that he hadn't been abandoned. Instead, his aged lady owner had died. No-one else was interested in taking him in, but we came along and he decided to adopt us. The Cat Protection League reckoned that he'd never been outside the apartment of his owner and had never met another cat.

It was obvious how he'd previously been fed..... when he was hungry, he simply parked himself in front of the fridge and looked expectant.

The partnership of Gilbert and Sullivan will always remain in our memory for for their joint break-in to the fridge when we were out one day, and their demolition/consumption of a complete pot of mince .............. after which we had to put a padlock on the fridge, - honest, cross my heart ..............

David & Joanne

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Post by mallog » Sun Sep 03, 2006 5:51 pm

Sorry to read about Gilbert, David & Joanne.
I have had cats all my life till now. About a year ago I lost my last cat. I am hoping I will not be tempted to get another as it's just too hard. I remember years ago one of my cats was missing (when it was a kitten my husband had given it the kiss of life!) Anyway one night a couple of days later I heard it crying outside the door . It appeared to have been run over and had found it's way back home. All the way to the vet it lay on my knee purring - obviously glad to be back. Nothing could be done and I cried for days. I loved that cat it had such a good nature. Even yet nearly thirty years later I could well up. The latest one had been a rescue cat. It was black and had what I called a white bow-tie moustache. As far as I am concerned when we went to the rescue centre he chose us and did a one-off song and dance act to persuade us to pick him.

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Post by StewL » Mon Sep 04, 2006 2:07 am

Sorry for those who have lost their pets, maybe thas why I dont have one.

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My late mother had a miniature Daschund, black short hair called Pooch (a rescue dog off the streets it was thrown out of a car, and that was only name it would answer to :lol: ) But my mother called her a prostitute as she would sleep with anyone. She liked to sleep curled up against yer bum. So when my youngest brother got out of bed she would nick off to the next bed :lol: etc until everyone was up. We had her for 19 years before she had to be put down, and the vets had told mum earlier that she was not a pup when she found her, so she was probably around 2021. An auld dug when she went.
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Post by AnneM » Mon Sep 04, 2006 8:21 pm

Hi David

Much fellow feeling re your cat. This time last year I had my three elderly ladies all of whom were very different and were also rescued cats. Now only one, the eldest, remains and she is 19 so can't be with me for too much longer. I've reluctantly resolved upon a cat free few years after she goes though no-one believes I'll do it. Having said that she is pretty fit and looks set to keep going for a quite a while yet!

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