First and foremost let me thank you all for your input it's greatly appreciated
I finally found some rellies and some i didn't even know existed, I found my grans aunt Ann Callaghan who had an illegitimate child who died very young. Just when one door closes another relation bangs on it. LOL Due to the fact that i can't find too much info on my lithuanian rellies until the Hamburg lists go online at Ancestry i decided to look further into my grandmothers family, hence why i was going crazy when i couldn't locate them.Once again thanks to all those for their help and support. (you guys are great)
p.s. I'm in Alexandria, Dunbartonshire