I have been looking at my Great-Grandfather's half brother's descendants-James Cooper(who my Grandfather was named for & set me looking for a female Waddell marrying a James Cooper when in fact it was James Cooper AKA Waddell)
He(James) was killed at work as a stonemason .His wife Mary Bryce was left widowed with six children to raise.
The eldest & youngest son were working as Stonemasons-the eldest as an employer & the youngest as a apprentice in the 1901 Census.William Waddell is living with them in 1881 Census(a brother of my Great-Grandpa & I spent forever looking for a Mary Waddell marriage when it was her hubby who was the blood relative)

At some point the eldest became a Company Secretary & I was wondering if anybody knew what this would have entailed.
The children -the ones whose marriages/deaths I have found seem to have lived at home until a fair age-the eldest was 34 when he married in 1901.They all had training / apprenticeships "respectable" employment so their Mother obviously managed well after being widowed.She must have been a tough old bird as she outlived her eldest son & youngest daughter.
I now think this is where several of my Mum's "cousins" descend from too & many of her childhood times were spent with James Cooper's grandchildren/great-grandchildren.